( Yes. But those aren't her problems to share, something that has become easier to recognize over the last year and then some. She's been growing up in spite of herself at times. )

Careful! Don't burn your hands on the mugs!

( Slips out first, genuine and somewhat teasing concern. )

As far as I know, there's no big trouble right now. It's just a loyalty thing. I'd say the same about me, if anyone from home that I knew and liked was here. Would you say anything different?